Music is What Life Sounds Like

In music the passions enjoy themselves.  – Friedrich Nietzsche

Music IS life

Music IS life

Day 9:

Sometimes, in this life, we need a song.

Whether it’s for helping us make decisions, sorting out our feelings, letting off steam, dancing in jammies or discovering something worthwhile, music is interwoven into our daily lives.
Music can dictate your path in life – your choice in friends, places to go, how you feel about yourself. Listen to up-beat music and feel energetic. Listen to a slow song and relax or just be.
I swear that 50% of my mind must be composed of song lyrics and melodies. Riffs and breaks and beats.

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Studies have found that music improves mood, and I am very interested in the interplay between the two.  Clearly, music can change a person’s mood in few seconds, let her recall a certain past situation that happened to her clearly and can change her mental state.  Is it possible for people with mood disorders learn to self-regulate through their choice of song? If so, how?

The point here is not what IS, but what CAN be through music as a tool for knowing yourself, and possibly others.

My boyfriend recently posted a song and stated “Love the words to this song”. This was posted while we were having a rough patch.

Here’s the catch – what did he like about the song? At that moment? What part of the words hit him, made him take affirmative steps to go and post this video and point out that the lyrics mattered to him? Does this mean anything profound? Should I take note?

“I Will Follow You Into The Dark” by Death Cab for Cutie

Love of mine some day you will die
But I’ll be close behind
I’ll follow you into the dark
No blinding light or tunnels to gates of white
Just our hands clasped so tight
Waiting for the hint of a spark
If Heaven and Hell decide
That they both are satisfied
Illuminate the NOs on their vacancy signs
If there’s no one beside you
When your soul embarks
Then I’ll follow you into the dark
In Catholic school as vicious as Roman rule
I got my knuckles bruised by a lady in black
And I held my tongue as she told me
“Son fear is the heart of love”
So I never went back

If Heaven and Hell decide
That they both are satisfied
Illuminate the NOs on their vacancy signs

If there’s no one beside you
When your soul embarks
Then I’ll follow you into the dark

You and me have seen everything to see
From Bangkok to Calgary
And the soles of your shoes are all worn down
The time for sleep is now
It’s nothing to cry about
’cause we’ll hold each other soon
In the blackest of rooms

If Heaven and Hell decide
That they both are satisfied
Illuminate the No’s on their vacancy signs

If there’s no one beside you
When your soul embarks
Then I’ll follow you into the dark

Think too much

Scorpio:

You might feel distracted or unable to focus today, which could be annoying if you feel you need to do one thing and one thing only. However, if you let yourself find inspiration in a number of things, you can turn this into a positive. Just don’t expect your attention to be undivided!

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Day 7:

Scorpio:

A heightened sensitivity or ability to see to the core of the situation will allow you to be a great help to friends and loved ones.

Make yourself available as a source of support, and they will be grateful to have an understanding and intuitive person to go to for assistance.

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Back to the daily grind. Today we are dealing with a broken Dell (shock), a messy desk area (double shock) and not enough coffee.8d0bad3f1357b2ac98d86b1dad1a4bda
I have this issue where as soon as the work week is over, I log out of the virtual land of computers, and spend most of my weekend either sleeping or waking up.
Thus Days 5 and 6 were spent doing exactly that – procrastinating.

So – No post for YOU!

Soup Nazi was cool 🙂

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procrastination

pro·cras·ti·nate

[proh-kras-tuh-neyt, pruh-] pro·cras·ti·nat·ed, pro·cras·ti·nat·ing.

urban dictionary:

   1.   A similar experience to masturbation, it feels good while you’re doing it, but it sucks afterwards when you realize that you just fucked yourself.
   2.   If you are on here, you probably are already doing this. It means you are putting something off until the last possible second (by doing pointless things in most people’s cases).  i.e. He is awesome at procrastination: the day before a big project was due, he watched 6 t.v. shows, took a really long shower, and didn’t start his project until 3 a.m.

dictionary.com:

   1.   to put off till another day or time; defer; delay
   2.   Origin: 1580–90;  < Latin prōcrāstinātus
         (past participle of prōcrāstināre  to put off until tomorrow, equivalent to prō- pro-1 -crāstināre,          derivative of crāstinus  of tomorrow; crās  tomorrow + -tinus  suffix forming adjectives from

         temporal adverbs); see -ate

procrastination

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But the personal life is back on track, and now it’s time for me to MOTIVATE myself to:

1. Study for the Feb MBE – FML

2. Bikram Yoga – Feeling HOT HOT HOT!

3. Arm Weights – yes, I have granny arms 😦

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mo·ti·vate

[moh-tuh-veyt] mo·ti·vat·ed, mo·ti·vat·ing.

urban dictionary:

   1.   That thing in the back of your mind that drives you, no matter what seems to be stacked against you.

dictionary.com:

   1.     to provide with a motive or motives; incite; impel.

          Origin:  1860–65; motive + -ate1

motivation

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Cloudy with a Chance of Awesomeness

Day 4543887_251854984945242_1002387020_nToday is the day I actually sit down and answer 30 bar prep questions. I will prevail!

Tonight’s Shenanigans include the “big conversation” with the significant, followed by a charity event to celebrate Erin Mia’s Birthday and help Kim’s Good Karma Group raise funds for Food for the Poor, Inc..

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* FASHION FORWARD *: A SPRING 2013 RUNWAY FASHION SHOW WITH SPECIAL GUEST HOST, MISS SOUTH FLORIDA USA, GIANINA ACEVEDO.
In Celebration of Erin Mia Milchman’s Birthday to Benefit Food for the Poor, Inc.
You are ALL invited! If you can’t make it, please help out the cause by donating whatever you can to:

Scorpio:

Daily Overview for January 04, 2013

Overview

Watch your tongue in the next few days. You might be tempted to say something to someone that would just end up backfiring. People are doing things that they shouldn’t be doing, but if you keep your desire to rant in check, you’ll be glad you did.

J.Lo’s Stunt Double is a Man.

Day 3.

Thank you January 3, 2013 for bringing me this slightly entertaining news.

Yes, J.Lo’s stunt double is a man.

Ha. Hahaha. Ha.

Were it not for this picture, and THAT look from the body double, this day would continue its downward descent MUCH more swiftly.

2013 is starting out interesting already, on SO many levels.

In other news, really Astrology? Really?

Scorpio:

Daily Overview for January 03, 2013

Overview

Don’t give your partner the silent treatment, and don’t hold back when you have something you would like to talk about.

Open communication is very important in any relationship, so talk it out! More will be resolved this way as opposed to holding it all inside and not giving your thoughts release.

Wow. FML. L8r.

Welcome to a New Day

2013.

Day 1.  OVER.

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Day 2.  Shit just got real.

The plan:
1. Break out the Calendar
2. Update the Bucket List
3. FORGET THE PAST BECAUSE IT HAS PASSED.

But in case I’m not quite ready to forget the past, which judging from prior experience I never AM, here’s what Facebook believes are my best 20 moments of 2012.

Thanks for that Facebook. My best moments in 2012 consisted on being dressed as a goth circus-y chick at Halloween. Winning.

Apparently my best moments are those i make on my own – just a thought 😉

And tonight I’m cleaning out my closet…

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