UPDATE: The Social Experiment a/k/a I made a stupid bet and now I have to follow through.

UPDATE:  433 as of 9/10/15.  I have done nothing.

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426.

This is how many people are “following” me on Twitter.

This number consists of friends, family, acquaintances, work colleagues, stalkers, members of common organizations, people I have followed throwing out an obligatory follow-back, that guy I met at the club that day, that girl I talked to at the leadership summit, the potential client I connected with at that networking happy hour, the person who liked a comment made two years ago, my friends kids, my dog, and possibly your dog too.

This number represents my total lack of effort at actually forming a Twitter “presence”.

Be engaging! Be witty! Be proactive! Be a force for change!

The focal point of our new world order is an all-encompassing Social Media ostensibly meant to connect us with the world and give our individual voices a platform upon which to share our “uniqueness” with others. Blah. We can harness this power to share ideologies and educate the world with our expert opinions. Blah blah. We too can effect change, by exchanging ideas for making the world a better/cleaner/happier/adjective place. Blah x 3.

Or maybe to share what we are for eating dinner. And where. And with whom. And here’s a picture of a plate covered with that dinner we are eating at that place with so-and-so don’t you wish you were here?

Enough already!

Personally, I find it exhausting. Deciding what to wear most mornings for work is hard enough (where I will physically plant my butt on my office chair in front of my office computer and deal with physically present co-workers). Deciding how to enthrall my virtual followers with stories of my day and my ideas is just too much responsibility.

During the course of yet another random bitch session on the stupidity of Social Media (a/k/a why don’t I have more friends/followers/hits), my friend bet me that I could not get 1000 followers on Twitter. Call it boredom. Call it curiosity. Call it whatever you want, but I took the bait.

So, now what? How do I go out and convince 574 people to follow me on Twitter, without bribing them or joining a follow group or anything else not quite on the up and up?
The services that are the building blocks of Social Media – Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, etc. – are deceptively easy to access. All you need do to take your place on your very own pulpit is to open an account and say something. (See? I’m doing it right now! Hi Mom!) You can say anything, really, a grunt will suffice, because content is key. Or was that context? It’s debatable, as it seems the terms are sadly interchangeable. Not only do these services provide us the opportunity to interact, in doing so they have, in turn, become multi-billion dollar industries in and of themselves. This means everyone is either actively using or actively not using their accounts.  They have it, even if they don’t use it. Like me.

So ease of access is not an issue. I get that. I already have the accounts, I have a decent base, and I have a network of people to exchange content. So now that I have a goal, a number to work towards, I am stumped. How do I start?

I’m giving myself a homework assignment.  I will look up 10 articles on how to increase my Twitter presence, and share my findings. Wish me luck!

Isn’t it ironic? Holocaust letter on Hitler’s personal stationary by my jewish grandfather goes viral.

Unlike the song by Alanis Morisette, this really IS ironic.

During WWII, my jewish grandfather wrote home to my grandmother on Hitler’s Stationary.

Why? Because “F**k you Hitler” – that’s why! 

I used to play with his trunk from the war when i was little, which included a helmet and a pack of cigarettes. (Those are the only items I remember).  It sat in our basement forever until my mom sent it to my uncle almost 20 years ago.

The Miami Herald picked up on the story after my uncle contacted the Holocaust museum in D.C. to donate the letter, among other items.

Enjoy!

#NeverForget

CLASSIC.

Check out the story here.

Back and Ready to Rock.

I’ve been neglecting my blog for quite some time – “real life” can really interfere with my social media and internet addiction.

It’s definitely time for me to start expressing myself here once again. This tiny corner where I share my thoughts helps put a lot of issues into perspective, and it is simply a comfortable place to VENT sometimes.

There are so many interesting topics surrounding our daily lives. We are living history every day – AMAZING, SCARY, INFURIATING, FUN, CRAZY – you name it, it’s out there and we are all a part of the story.

Some of the topics that interest me are charities and causes, Anti-Bullying, the Arts, social change, mental health awareness, current events, and whatever else may catch my attention (IFLS, after all).

I WELCOME COMMENTS – keeps it interesting. I’m all for open discourse. By no means do I think everyone will share my opinion, but I do hope that people will engage and upgrade the conversation by commenting on a post, or even emailing me directly! We are always learning and growing 🙂

If you want my take on a specific subject, feel free to hit me up! Not sure whether I will have anything of value to say on the subject, but I will try my best.

Fair Warning – I’ve been collecting graphics and memes for as long as I can remember (psp tubes anyone?), and I plan to upload my favorites as often as possible. I also have the tendency to share random photos of my dogs (hey, everyone has their quirks – no apologies).

GERONIMO. That is all.

NVEEE’s 3rd Annual “Not On My Watch” Anti-Bullying Red-Carpet Reception

NVEEE Presents…

The 3rd Annual “Not on My Watch” Red-Carpet Event Benefitting #BullyingAwarenessWeek

AND TIME TO CELEBRATE MY BIRTHDAY!!

Please come out and celebrate my BIRTHDAY with NVEEE!!
You all know how near and dear to my heart NVEEE is, since our founding so many years ago.

That’s why, in lieu of gifts, all I ask is that you attend and donate $25 to NVEEE
(i.e. the price of a ticket!)
Can’t make it? Please consider a donation!!!

PLEASE Get your tickets today! http://tinyurl.com/mxbefzk

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 EVENT DETAILS:

When:

Friday November 22, 2013 | 7:00 PM to 11:00 PM

Add to Calendar

Where:

Brasileiro Restaurant801 Brickell Bay Drive, Miami, FL 33131

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THAT’S RIGHT MY FRIENDS!!

I expect EVERYONE to jump in the photo booth DONATED by Style Fusion and take some crazy pics!1080501_10200839143434234_735010691_n

COME CELEBRATE FOR A GREAT CAUSE!!!

Here we go AGAIN. Tragic Child Suicide In New York Linked To Bullying.

Does it EVER end?

Authorities have confirmed the tragic suicide death of a 12-year-old  in New York was due to the relentless bullying she was subjected to for several months beforehand from classmates.

According to Gabrielle Molina’s suicide note and accounts from her sister, 15-year-old Georgia, the seventh-grader took her own life because of persistent cyber-bullying, slut-shaming, and name calling from her middle school peers. It had just become too much.

HERE IS THE FULL TEXT OF THE ARTICLE, and I’ve highlighted the parts that really hit me, and ranted on a few.

Her SISTER Georgia found Gabrielle after she’d hanged herself inside her bedroom.

Georgia had been sworn to secrecy, told not to reveal the abuse to their parents, though they knew Gabrielle was having some trouble at school.

RANT INSERT:  REALLY???? Sworn to secrecy?? How many other siblings are out there keeping such “secrets” from the people who can help most – parents, friends, teachers, even anonymous tip lines, and groups like NVEEE.org.

The girl was often taunted by classmates over her appearance – victimized both face-to-face and online. Fellow students who sent the upsetting messages are currently under investigation as officers removed computers from the Molina home in order to have them analyzed. Several students have been questioned since the incident, but no charges have been imposed.

Associates of Gabrielle said she’d got into a fistfight with another girl that was videotaped and posted on YouTube; she had a history of cutting herself and had recently broken up with a boyfriend – providing the bullies with fodder.

RANT INSERT:  TWO WORDS – CYBER BULLYING.

Schools Chancellor Dennis Walcott said that a preliminary investigation did not show any serious bullying problems at the school.

RANT INSERT:  HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! EVERY school has bullying problems – stop burying your head in the sand.  Are teachers so afraid of being blamed or coming to false conclusions that they just pretend this doesn’t happen? That these kids are ok?

How do you define a serious bullying problem? Any bullying should not be tolerated and should be considered serious as it can stem from its own environment of abuse or mental illness.

Bullying has always been a problem, especially in middle school when socialization seems to be the most difficult. Physical, emotional, and psychological threats make it difficult for an individual to get through the day and focus on their academic work. With technology pusillanimous bullies can post hate-speak and degrading taunts about a person with some anonymity. Often times there is little schools can do to protect the victim as many school officials will say unless the acts occur while on school grounds, there isn’t much they can do to deter it.

Parents have addressed a call for action, demanding something more be done to protect their children from this type of victimization as daily threats and assaults can lead to depression, lessened self-esteem, eating disorders, anxiety, sleeplessness, drug and alcohol abuse, effect academic performance and overall well-being, and, in extreme cases, suicidal tendencies.

RANT INSERT:  OK, what exactly does a “call to action” mean? Hey Guys! Stop bullying! Seriously. 

Parents need to be PROACTIVE, and actions speak louder than words.

That is all.

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Scorpio:

Daily Overview for May 28, 2013

Overview

A choice that seems trivial may not be all that trivial! This could shape quite a bit for you in the coming days and weeks, so make sure that you are thinking things through with care. If you really ponder the issue, you will begin to see where things are going for the future.

Therapist liability or negligence.

I’m currently taking my last of 2 Masters in Science classes, and I’m going to share a post I recently made.  Interested very much in YOUR take!

P.S. For some reason, the footnotes are missing (prob because I cut and pasted this) so I just added the references at the end.

 

Therapist liability or negligence.

Assignment:

Choose one of the malpractice cases described in this chapter. Describe one of the points of law, specific issues, or matters of doctrine that impressed, intrigued or frightened you. Since we have all read this chapter, there is no need to summarize the case. Rather, you should discuss one aspect of the case. You can argue the court’s findings, learn more about the issues involved through outside references, or describe a variation on the case that might have gotten a different outcome.
Me:
You know what scares me? Negligence claims. The fact that the rule put forth by the Court of Appeals of New York in Schrempf v. State, to wit, the physicians duty/professional judgment standard, is only a minority rule utilized by one state is troubling to me.  The physicians duty (basis for the ordinary negligence standard) as explained by the Appellate Court in Schrempf incorporates both physicians duty and professional judgment:

“A Physicians duty is to provide the level of care acceptable in the professional community in which he practices.  He is not required to achieve success in every case and cannot be held liable for mere errors in professional judgment . . . the line between medical judgment and deviation from good medical practice is not easy to draw particularly in cases involving psychiatric treatment.”

This is a rather low standard, but it is hopefully based on the facts of each particular case.  However, the point herein is that this doctrine, which calls for jury instructions when applicable, has only been recognized and not “universally adopted”. This disturbs me in that the states who have not adopted this view instead judge psychologists more harshly and with stricter standards.  While this can be good for egregious offenses where the psychologists ignores the duty to warn, and someone is hurt, it can also lead to ridiculous speculation over the physicians duty and professional judgment, which technically paves the way for counsel to poke holes in an experts testimony, and increases the chance of malpractice liability for the psychologist.  This is a gray area, aside from the direct responsibilities such as duty of care, etc.  Here, the psychologist was found not negligent, based upon exercise of professional judgment, even knowing that the patient had violent propensities and was known for rejecting his medication on an outpatient basis.

The only case I see as a saving grace is Stepakoff v. Kantar, which lays forth safeguards for psychologists acting in a reasonable manner.  Here, the Court reversed a guilty verdict due to the judge’s failure to include the aforementioned jury instructions on a psychiatrists duty to his patients, which is definitely one of the central items in this case.  The Court reiterated the definitions of negligence of the ordinary person and negligence of a specialist (i.e. physician).  The Court then clearly states:

“We are unwilling to disturb our long standing rule that a  physician, practicing a specialty, owes to his or her patient a duty to comply in all respects with the [reasonableness] standard set by the average physician practicing that specialty”.
I would like to say that I myself prefer that psychologists, etc. whom are general practitioners should be subject to the ordinary negligence standard. Those who decide to specialize, and gain additional education on a specific disorder or issue, should be held to the higher standard of good medical practice.

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Schrempf v. State, 66 N.Y.2d 289 (Court of Appeals of New York), p. 134-137 (text).

C. Slobogin, A. Rai & R. Reisner. Law and The Mental Health System: Civil and Criminal Aspects (5th ed. 2009), Page 136

Stepakoff v. Kantar, 393 Mass. 836, (S. Jud. Ct. Of Massachusetts), 1985, p. 130 (text).

Yes, I’m still here…

PIC THAT MAKES ME LAUGH TODAY:

 

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Yes, I know.  My postings are somewhat of a rarity lately, but I am trying to work on that 🙂

Scorpio:

Be honest with yourself that a mistake you made recently is your own fault. Think about your motives for doing what you did, and don’t convince yourself that you’re in the right before you give yourself some time to analyze your behavior. The only way you can move on from this is if you fess up.

 

YEAH, no. I always make mistakes, but most of the time I don’t remember them!!!

 

Benefits Of Having a Real Woman

Benefits Of Having a Real Woman

1. A real woman is a treasure if treated right.

When you take care of something good, that something good takes care of you.

2. A real woman adds value to everything in your life.

She turns good into great, she inspires excellence

3. A real woman is a teacher.

She isn’t perfect, she’s just worth the effort. Even her flaws will inspire you to love her harder

4. A real woman is incomparable.

Few things are more valuable in this world than the love of a loyal woman

5. A real woman balances things out.

She knows when to push, when to pull, or when to just pray.

6. A real woman understands that patience is a virtue.

She won’t rush things, she appreciates when things happen naturally

7. A real woman will challenge you.

She won’t settle for anything but your best and she’ll prove that’s what she deserves

8. A real woman won’t distract you from your dreams, she’ll inspire you to be more determined to reach them.

9. A real woman isn’t concerned with the unnecessary, she only addresses what matters.

Her focus keeps you focused.

10. A real woman believes in balance.

Her heart will build you up and her words will keep you humble.

She’s a true friend….There You Have It….Jay Love

Good advice? or Wishful thinking?

So is this good advice?

So is this good advice?

As you may have realized from my FB posts, Twitter updates and such (left side of the page – subscribe!!), I LOVE graphics, memes and life.

Soon my gallery will be completed, as soon as I figure out HOW lol!!

So what do YOU think about the advice in this “motivational” image?

Personally, I think it’s wishful thinking 🙂

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Scorpio – January 18, 2013

Stay out of trouble, and don’t look for it either. You may be feeling a little impish today, and you would like to have a little revenge on the people who get under your skin. You will most certainly get drawn into a drama of your own creation, however, so it’s best to be good.

See Friendship

NOTE: If you have no clue about this feature on FaceBook, read this article first. Or this one.

Sickest thing about Facebook – the “See Friendship” feature.

It’s like your PAST poking you in the EYE with a STICK!

It shows you (and possibly anyone who cares to look, not too sure) the entire FB friendship between yourself and another person – which could be cool – EXCEPT:

What if you no longer TALK to that person?

Or you just had a bad break-up (stalk(ed) much?)

UGH!

Of course (surprise, surprise) I found it by clicking ‘See Friendship’ while mooning over my “on-break” other half’s page. I admit it.

However, I will NOT be visiting again – how sad is it to look at the timeline of a past relationship? Or one that is not so stable at the moment?

Having a graphical reminder of every FB interaction we ever had, including photos, messages – EVERYTHING!

I’m talking photos we’re both tagged in, wall posts and comments between us, events we both RSVP’d to, and our mutual friends and Likes.

Curiosity killed the cat – well, I feel as though I just took that cat and watched as it was born; as it frolicked and played as a kitten; as it grew older and more distant; and then…ended. Nothing.

“See Friendship” = Curiosity = Dead Cat.

Why not just tattoo this onto my forehead:

Yup, right here.

Yup. This girl. Right here.

Yeah, so – “See Friendship” feature? Go take a hike. Without shoes. On rocky shores.

There is a cliff there BTW, just sayin’.